Saturday, July 7, 2012

My Personal Research Journey

Following the death of my husband, I watched the three of my children grieve the loss of their dad each in his own special way. Falling back on my religious beliefs and the strength and support of family and friends, I was able to provide the needed support for my children to get them through the tragedy. The loss of my husband was not my children’s first experience with the subject of death, however. Beforehand, our family grieved the loss of my unborn child in my fifth month of pregnancy, our family pet, and even my youngest son lost a classmate and a teacher in his school. Nonetheless, the subject of death was never an easy topic to discuss, yet due to its inevitability, I believe it is critical to address it with children at various levels of development. But the question remains, how?
For my research simulation, I chose to investigate the topic of death understanding and children. The topic is big and has many implications. Do all children understand death at the same level, does spirituality and family culture affect children’s understanding, and do prior experiences make a difference? All are valid questions, but I had to narrow down my topic. So, I will start by gaining an understanding of the relationship between children’s cognitive development and death understanding. Therefore, my topic of research is “What are the developmental stages of death understanding in young children”? Children develop in stages, whether it’s learning to eat, sit, walk, or talk. Their understanding of death could be the same, in stages. If we learn these stages, we will know what language to use to address the topic based on their cognitive level and ability.

I have gained so much insight from this week’s assignment, especially the part about formulating a research question. I think narrowing down the topic is the hardest part of the research process. I anticipate gaining a greater insight at the end of the research simulation. I hope you will share your insight and advice about the topic and forward any articles you might come across in your research that might contribute to mine. So far, I have printed about five articles from the Walden Library just by searching for the topic of “death understanding and children”. I can’t wait to read them all.

3 comments:

  1. Hi Rola,
    Thank you for your comments on my Blog, and I also really enjoyed your post on the topic of Death and Understanding in children. I completely agree with you that narrowing the topic matter was not an easy task, but I think you made an excellent choice, and I will be very excited to see what you discovery through your course of research. Like you I chose this subject not only based on my interest in the topic, But also based on my experiences, both professionally and personally, and it's because of these experiences that it has made me even more determined to seek answers, and find information and resources into helping children, especially young children deal with the inevitability of death and dying. Great Job! I always feel like I gain so much from your discussion and Blog posts. Good Luck!

    Sylvia

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  2. Hello Rola,
    Death is such a tough topic but I am excited to read about what you learn about the development awareness when it comes to death. My son, when he was in first grade, witnessed a child get hit by a car while waiting for the school bus. I was waiting with him but my back was turned in a different direction. To this day, I am not sure what that tramatic experience will affect in the future. I was unsure if it was okay to talk to him about the experience or let him bring it up. My son showed great concern for me during the situation. It will be very interesting to hear about your finding on the topic.

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  3. Rola,
    Thank you so much for your post and you are so right about the importance of finding the right way to help children in understanding death and the grieving process. I think that all people grieve in their own way and because all children develop differently, their understanding of death would be no different. I am sorry to hear that your family had to go through so much but I'm sure that you are all stronger because of it (especially in your faith). I think that we will all have so much to gain from you and your topic and I look forward to learning more from you. If and when I come across any resources that will help you, I will make sure to let you know. I agree that narrowing down a research topic is a difficult thing to do but it sounds as if you picked a very good one. Good luck with your research!

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